In Facing the Giants, the football coach challenges his player to go beyond what he believes is possible. Blindfolded and carrying the weight of a teammate, the young man surprises even himself by crossing the entire field. He taps into strength he didn’t know he had because someone believed in him and refused to let him settle for less.

Every day, we face our own “giants.” They might not look like a literal Philistine warrior, but they show up as doubts whispering, You can’t do this. They disguise themselves as bad habits clinging to us like old baggage or fears telling us to stay small. Sometimes they’re overwhelming, like the relentless to-do list or the chaos of life. But each time we confront these giants—one step, one prayer, one decision at a time—we weaken their hold on us.

David didn’t defeat Goliath because he was the strongest or most skilled. He won because he recognized that he didn’t stand alone. Behind his humble sling and stone was the power of a living God who equips the willing and strengthens the faithful. That same power is behind us. When we take even a small step forward, it’s not just our strength at work—it’s the mighty force of God pushing us, steadying us, and helping us claim victory.

Your giants may be tall, but your God is taller. With Him, you can carry more, overcome more, and go farther than you think. So take the step. Throw the stone. Face the field. You might just surprise yourself.

“You come against me with a sword, spear, and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the Lord of Armies, the God of the ranks of Israel—you have defied him.”
– 1 Samuel 17:45, Christian Standard Bible (CSB)

Imagine making the bold decision to change your ways. You’re pumped, determined, ready to shed old habits. But just when you’re getting into the groove, life throws obstacles in your path. Familiar routines, tempting old habits, and the magnetic pull of what you’ve always done—all seem to pop up, uninvited. It’s as if the universe has you on speed dial for cosmic roadblocks.

The truth? The universe isn’t out to get you. What’s happening is that your brain is following well-worn pathways—the familiar routes you’ve built over time. Think of it like an old dirt road that’s been driven over so many times, it practically knows the way on its own. It’s easy to take, it’s comfortable, and it’s what your brain defaults to. So, creating new patterns? That’s like carving out a fresh trail in a dense forest. It takes time, patience, and consistency.

Now, let’s talk about Lisa’s story, a real example of how challenging (but possible!) it is to forge a new path. After a tough period of addiction, Lisa decided to turn her life around. She knew it wouldn’t be easy, but she underestimated just how strong the pull of her old habits would be. Every step forward seemed to come with two steps back. The routines she’d established during her struggle were like deep ruts in her mind, and even small triggers seemed to lure her back to them.

But Lisa didn’t quit. She joined a support group, found a mentor, and committed to daily practices that helped her build new mental pathways. It wasn’t glamorous or quick, but day by day, those new paths became clearer. Yes, she still faced setbacks, but each one became less jarring as the new roads in her brain began to take hold. Lisa’s journey is a powerful reminder that change isn’t about snapping your fingers; it’s about steady work, resilience, and faith.

So, keep going. Every time you reinforce that new path, it becomes a bit stronger and easier to follow. You’re not failing when you hit a rough patch, you’re building a new way forward.

“Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin…” (Zechariah 4:10, CSB).

In one person’s world, you’d confidently approach people, saying hello without hesitation. In another’s, you’d hang back near the wall, sticking to familiar faces at a social gathering. Each of us navigates life through our own unique reality, seeing the world through the lens of our experiences. But whether we think our world is sunny or stormy, sometimes we need to step outside it and see things from another angle to truly understand someone else.

Picture three people standing in a line: Persons 1 and 2 face East, while Person 3 faces West, directly opposite Person 2. If Person 2 hands a $100 bill to Person 3, Person 1 won’t see the exchange because they’re positioned behind Person 2. For Person 1 to see it, they’d need to shift to the left or right—changing their perspective.

Now imagine Persons 1 and 3 are in a relationship. If you’re Person 1, trying to understand Person 3 better, you might need to adjust your viewpoint to see things from their side. Or maybe you’re Person 2, wishing others would see life through your eyes. Perhaps, you just need to turn around and listen.

Perspective is everything. It’s your move.

Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. – Philippians 2:4

In 2005, I met a beautiful woman—now my wife—and let’s just say our relationship had more fireworks than the Fourth of July. In hindsight, some of those early disagreements might have been red flags, but she completely captivated me. She was, and still is, a rare find. Like a treasure chest, she has revealed even more gems over our 16-plus years of marriage.

Truth be told, I was on a mission to get married. Like many, I imagined myself being the husband who makes his wife happy while simultaneously building an empire. You know, easy stuff. But, as it turns out, “happily ever after” is more like “happily, with occasional conflict after.” Take one evening years ago: after a long, exhausting day, all I wanted was to come home and collapse. Instead, I found myself in the middle of yet another disagreement.

The morning before that argument, I thought I’d offer a nice gesture to show my appreciation for her—I brought her flowers. Simple, right? Well, not so fast. Her response? She asked if the store had a return policy because the flowers didn’t match the dining room décor. Apparently, the bouquet’s green, yellow, and red clashed with our dining room’s green theme. Who knew?

Then on another day, a Saturday, I was eager to get us to a land sale at a lakeview development—a two-hour drive away. But we left later than I intended and by the time we arrived, all the prime plots were gone, leaving us with the leftovers. On the drive to church the next day, Sunday, I sat in silence, wondering if I was losing more than just time—it seemed like my health, money, and investment opportunities were taking a hit, too. Not to mention, my dreams of future heirs felt a bit shaky.

Then, it hit me—maybe all of this wasn’t meant to destroy me but to grow me. Perhaps marriage is less about bliss and more about refinement (and figuring out how to navigate floral arrangements). The truth is, playing the victim wasn’t helping either of us. If she wasn’t following my lead, maybe I wasn’t leading well. Marriage, as I’ve learned, isn’t just about happiness or wealth—it’s God’s way of shaping us into better versions of ourselves.

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her” (Ephesians 5:25, CSB).

In life and business, much like in a hospital, we must learn the art of triage. When patients enter the ER with various injuries—whether from accidents, burns, or wounds—the medical team doesn’t rush in treating the first person they see. They evaluate, assess, and determine the most life-threatening conditions to treat first. Without this process, chaos ensues and lives are at risk.

Similarly, in our daily lives and work, we face countless “injuries” in the form of distractions, opportunities, and challenges. But are we applying triage? Often, we throw our energy into tasks or ventures that may not truly promote the health of our life or business. We become preoccupied with things that aren’t threatening the survival or growth of what matters most.

Just like a doctor prioritizes treatment, we must develop the awareness to see what’s truly critical for our success and well-being. Are we addressing the broken bones—those crucial tasks and goals that will keep us moving forward? Or are we bandaging scratches that pose no real threat but consume our time?

With awareness, courage, and persistence, we can improve our decision-making, focusing on what will stabilize and propel us. It’s about dedicating ourselves to life-saving actions in our goals and businesses, ensuring that we don’t get sidetracked by less important distractions.

“Teach us to number our days carefully so that we may develop wisdom in our hearts.” —Psalm 90:12 (CSB)

Early on the morning of August 29, 2024, I found myself reflecting on a life spent giving, yet suddenly yearning to receive. My wife and I were facing a season of lack—no income, and the bills were piling up. Yet, I’ve been blessed to see significant desires materialize over the years. Instead of withholding what little I had in an attempt to hold on to more, I realized that perhaps the key was to continue giving, trusting that abundance would follow.

That very day, I began reading The Go-Giver by Bob Burg and John Mann, completing it by September 2. The book inspired a shift in my perspective: rather than focusing on selling my services, I decided to freely share valuable information. I committed to learning not to sell better, but to give better—offering knowledge with quality and clarity. Each day, I asked myself, “How can I add value today?”

Now, a month later, I’ve experienced the fruits of this change. I landed another job interview, was featured on a podcast discussing my wealth management business, discovered new marketing strategies, and connected with key individuals to grow my business. Remarkably, I’ve also felt less stressed about business development, buoyed by a renewed sense of optimism. I intend to keep this momentum going.

Your opportunity may not be to maintain a giving posture, but perhaps to embrace patience, persistence, consistency, discipline, commitment, reliability, relaxation, optimism, or prudence. Or it could be something entirely different. I challenge you to think differently for a month, to adopt a new posture or perspective. At the end of that time, assess your state—you may be surprised by what or who you discover.

“ Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” —Luke 6:38 (NIV)

Imagine a fence that separates the life of your dreams from the realm of mediocrity. On one side, there’s the land flowing with milk and honey — your hopes, aspirations, and the fulfillment of your God-given potential. On the other side? Well, let’s just say it’s more like a dry, cracked desert where dreams go to die of thirst.

Now, every thought you think and action you take pulls you deeper into one side or the other. Engage in life-giving activities, and you’ll find yourself basking in the glow of your dreams. Indulge in negative thinking or procrastination, and you might as well pack a bag for your extended stay in Mediocre-ville.

But what if you decide to dance on the fence? Sure, you’re keeping your options open, but let’s be real — fences aren’t made for dancing. The danger of falling off in the wrong direction is high, and if you’re not careful, you could end up with more than just a bruised ego. Hesitation and indecision are like barbed wire on that fence, ready to slice into your spirit and leave you stuck, wounded, and going nowhere.

So, what’s the solution? Get off the fence! Pick a side — preferably the one with the greener pastures and fewer regrets. Immerse yourself in it fully, and if you ever decide to switch sides, do it boldly. Jump with both feet, because half-hearted attempts only keep you teetering in uncertainty.

Remember, the fence isn’t your friend. It’s a place of indecision, and that’s where the real danger lies. As it says in Matthew 6:24 (NIV),

“A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.”

This verse highlights the instability that comes with indecision, reinforcing the importance of choosing a side and committing to it fully.

Choose your side, jump, and let God handle the rest. Just make sure you’re aiming for the side that leads to life.