I’m going to present a formula but stick with me.

F = GMm/r²

Created by Sir Isaac Newton, this is the formula for measuring the force of gravity. Let me explain the symbols and bring it home to how it can be applied to us.

We are all familiar with how the force of gravity, F, works. Said simply, what goes up, must come down. G is a constant meaning that no matter what the value of the other measures are, G will remain the same. M and m represent the two masses or bodies the force is affecting, and r is the distance between them. Notice that r is in the denominator. This means that the greater the distance between the two bodies, the smaller the force on them. Also, the bigger the M in relation to m the less the force will affect it.

In our lives we have gravitational forces on our emotions and our ambitions, to name just two. No matter the situation or interaction, you (state your name) or me (Jon ONeil) will have the same name, G. Now think of yourself as one of the masses, M, and the other object or person pulling on you as the other mass, m. That m could be anything from the fear of success to self-sabotaging thoughts or habits, to unsupportive or contrary people.

If the contrary force, m, has too much influence, you need to grow your mass, M, so it becomes less effective. There is a better way to interact with your m, to increase the distance between both of you. For example, for fear, you may need to exercise more courage. For unhealthy habits you may need a coach, mentor, or accountability partner. For contrary people you may need to dissolve or reduce interactions with him or her. Or you may need a direct conversation to reach an agreement for improved interactions if possible.

If you continue to allow the pull of unwanted gravity in your life to continue to prevent you from operating as the person God created you to be you would be doing a disservice to Him, yourself, and others. Consistently conversate with God for His guidance on you functioning as the version of you who brings Him the most glory.

Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Do not be terrified nor dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.

(NASB, Joshua 1:9)